A Little Piece of Joy

A Little Piece of Joy

Oh the most wonderful time of year.  Filled with family, Christmas lights, decorations, good food, and how can we forget the presents?   But… for some, this is not the most wonderful time of year.  It brings financial burden, unnecessary stress, heartache,...
My Dad, My Hero, Not Just Another Suicide

My Dad, My Hero, Not Just Another Suicide

“You’re blue family until someone doesn’t agree with the way they died.” I will never forget reading this line in an article a few years ago.  And I’ll never forget this excerpt from my dad’s suicide note.  “The sixth interview could be of [name...
Keeping your Composure in 5 minutes or Less

Keeping your Composure in 5 minutes or Less

Let’s talk about keeping your composure in 5 minutes or Less. Maintaining focus in composure in volatile, uncertain, complex and ambiguous (VUCA) situations is an essential skill for first responders.  The thing is, when you’re about to respond to a call, you...
Policing is a Strange Job.

Policing is a Strange Job.

Policing is a Strange Job. I was just walking into a restaurant to order lunch when I heard the call.  “Woman not breathing.” Then I heard the address.  Less than a mile away from me.  I took a moment to pause. I’m in a specialty unit.  I drive a patrol vehicle, and I...